I really hate when extroverted me books appointments / events / etc. then when the appointment time arrives introverted me doesn’t want to go!
My daughter’s husband will ask her to wake him and then when she does, he doesn’t want to go. She tells him, “No. You made the decision to go when you asked me to wake you. Tired Tim doesn’t get to override the decision you already made.”
You're daughter is more persistent with her husband than I am with myself or my partner. I am almost always willing to cancel if that's what introverted/tired/overwhelmed me needs.
If I remember that I need transition time, I'm not good at scheduling it on my calendar.
There's that too...
I really hate when extroverted me books appointments / events / etc. then when the appointment time arrives introverted me doesn’t want to go!
My daughter’s husband will ask her to wake him and then when she does, he doesn’t want to go. She tells him, “No. You made the decision to go when you asked me to wake you. Tired Tim doesn’t get to override the decision you already made.”
You're daughter is more persistent with her husband than I am with myself or my partner. I am almost always willing to cancel if that's what introverted/tired/overwhelmed me needs.